In our country,the only-one child policy has made more and more parents pay so much attention to their children that they would like to replace their children to do ,including study,work and even marriage.This notion has given to many problems for children’s grow-ups.Therefore,our parents should learn to help their children to be .
There are some given to our parents.For one thing,it is quite important for our parents to realize that their children will grow up and have their own ideas and thoughts as time goes by.Thus,children should be to make some decisions alone in some matters so that they are able to pursue what they want.And this would also make to solve what we called “ gap.”
For another,our parents should believe that their children have enough ability to deal with their personal matters and between good and evil.Hence,parents should give some family chores to their children properly because it is a good chance to train them.
Of course,I am not saying that our parents should not help their children when they are getting into trouble,but I contend that our parents should give their children a free hand in some matters to help them to be .
They should give their children the freedom to make choices for .Children cannot be happy if they don’t have control over their life,which in daily life,means they make choices for ,like,what to eat,what to wear,what career to take,what kind of spouse they are going to marry.Some parents may be open-minded enough to let their children to make these tiny decisions about food and clothes,but when it comes to the big ones,they are too anxious to let their children have a try.
They used to be young and they made mistakes and now it is their sons and daughters’ turn to be young—the deep love and care is so intense that it becomes eventhey are reluctant to give their children to start to be for their own lives.
How Should Parents Help Children to be
Nowadays,there is a growing concern over such a ,that is,some parents take care of almost concerned with their children,including study,work and marriage.Some parents believe that this is love,however,it is only to destroy children’s .
For the future of the next ,more efforts should be made by parents to help their children to be .The one is to cultivate the awareness,namely,the and necessity of being ,which is supposed to begin from childhood.Children should be taught that no one can be stronger and more helpful than in this world.
The quality of is so for us that parents had better act as a tutor,not a dictator.And only with parents' trust,can the next step by step.