My son is very bright.He has a high ,but he doesn't do well in school.I have paid a lot of money for private teachers to help him;I have sent him to two private schools because I thought that the education was better than that in public schools.I have bought him books and computer discos.Still he doesn't do well in school.This proves that the meaning of the saying "You can lead a horse to water,but you can't make him drink" is that you can give someone all the for success,but you can't make the person .
Nowadays in china， many students are the only child in their family. they are the apple of their parents’ eyes or even their ’， so they are free of any house work or menial labor. and moral education is no more than some bookish thing. largely dependent on their parents and teachers.
To educate them to be ， the most effective way is to let them on their own. therefore，they are better to be given the to get some train at school-to clean the washing room，which can be regarded as part of the moral education.